woman the worst enemy of women on earth

Introduction

In today's times when there is so much focus on women empowerment and gender equality, there is also a bitter truth that sometimes it is the women themselves who discriminate against other women. In this article we will highlight issues where a woman herself has become a hindrance to another woman—be it gender checking during pregnancy, discrimination between girls and boys, or restrictions imposed on education and freedom. This problem is prevalent in many parts of the world and forces us to understand the deeper mindset of the society.

Gender Testing During Pregnancy: A problem where women themselves are involved

In many countries, especially South Asia, gender preference is still a major issue. Prenatal gender testing, which is officially illegal, is still a common practice. Before this, there is often a thought that it should be a boy, and this pressure is not only from the father or in-laws, but sometimes the pregnant woman herself also gets involved in the pressure of the society.
Many times women show more interest in their sons than their daughters, they think that the son will become their “buddhi’s support”, while the daughter is considered an “alien wealth”. As long as women themselves do not take a positive stand for their daughters, this cycle of gender discrimination will continue.

Difference between girls and boys among children: Sanskar or Sanskriti?

It is a common practice that in our society children are discriminated on the basis of gender. This thought, which has been inculcated in many times by parents in their children, can be used by a woman herself against another woman (her daughter). A mother, who gives preference to her son more than her own daughter, sometimes thinks that her son will become her support, whereas the daughter is seen as a "paraya dhan". This is the first step to make fun of a girl and this is what a woman does.

A mother herself at home can give less priority to her daughter, be it food, clothes or the question of education. What restrictions are imposed on girls, such as coming back home early, not going out too much, or not taking part in courses or activities that are 'not for girls'. It is an ironic thing that a mother, who herself once struggled with social constraints, forces her daughter into the same constraints.

Inequality in girls' schooling and education: Women themselves are facing obstacles.

Schooling and education are important in every child's life, but girls are often discriminated against. This problem will be solved only when women start taking stand for the daughters of their families. Sometimes, mothers themselves are hesitant in sending their daughters to college or higher education, considering that the real job of their daughter is to run a home.

Restrictions on Girls' Freedom and Autonomy: Safety or Control?

What kind of restrictions are imposed on girls all over the world? These restrictions, such as not going out after dusk, controls on what clothes to wear, or limitations on meeting friends, are often imposed by a woman—such as a mother, grandmother or mother-in-law. These restrictions are often justified in the name of “safety” or “izzat”, but in reality they limit the freedom and autonomy of girls.

When a mother or woman in the family makes this allowance for another woman or girl, it becomes an even bigger source of inequality. This behavior has a long-term impact where girls are taught that their happiness and dreams are less important. This is also a big reason why girls' confidence and ambitions sometimes do not reach their full potential.

Conclusion: How to do this cycle?

This is the bitter truth that sometimes a woman herself becomes an enemy to her daughter, sister or other women. This cycle of gender inequality will end only when women change their thinking and support each other.
Women's power will come only when a mother considers her daughter as just a 'responsibility' and embraces her dreams and supports her. As long as women do not eat with their daughters and other women, this cycle of discrimination will continue. The dream of women empowerment and gender equality will come true only when women hold each other's hand and broaden their thinking.
There is a need for a cultural shift, where women become role models and eliminate gender biases. In every society, community, and home, women should inspire their daughters, encourage them and give them the freedom that is their right.
Therefore, we can imagine a world where gender does not become the determining factor of any person's freedom, education, or dreams.ReadMore